"we change the community as we grow"

this is a very small but very powerful topic.
communities highly depends on the style of living. being in a certain community we work according to the rules and views of that community. sometime it happen that our ideas contradict with the believes of the community. this is the time when "we kill the thing we love the most". it happens because of the fear of loosing the community people and respect.
lets discuss this in detail with the help of an example:
we all know the story of robin hood.
the brief of the story is, robin hood has been thrown out from the city he lived. so he created his own group in the jungle by gathering others like him.
lets note down few quick points from the brief:
1) robin hood had a community(city public).
2) his thoughts and deeds were not matching with the believes of the present community.
3) he was abandoned.
4) he started living in the jungle.
5) he created his own community.
6) he became a respected person(Leader) in his community.
does he loose the people?
yes but in return he meet those who think like him and share the same.
what's worth?
living in a community where your thoughts are disrespect.
or
living in a community where your thoughts are appreciated and shared.
does he loose his respect?
he don't have any!! else nobody would dare to kick him out of the city. but now he is the leader of the community he created.
now let us take examples form our life:
when we were in school, we had friends. friends, best friends, lovely friends. we changed to college so do our friends and now hardly few are in contact. so we changed the community as we grow!!
so,
Human being is a social animal. we live in communities. each communities have their own set of rules, believes and views. bigger communities having sub communities as states->cities->sectors->streets.
similarly as like above we have psychological communities. like a club which shares the same interest.communities highly depends on the style of living. being in a certain community we work according to the rules and views of that community. sometime it happen that our ideas contradict with the believes of the community. this is the time when "we kill the thing we love the most". it happens because of the fear of loosing the community people and respect.
lets discuss this in detail with the help of an example:
we all know the story of robin hood.
the brief of the story is, robin hood has been thrown out from the city he lived. so he created his own group in the jungle by gathering others like him.
lets note down few quick points from the brief:
1) robin hood had a community(city public).
2) his thoughts and deeds were not matching with the believes of the present community.
3) he was abandoned.
4) he started living in the jungle.
5) he created his own community.
6) he became a respected person(Leader) in his community.
does he loose the people?
yes but in return he meet those who think like him and share the same.
what's worth?
living in a community where your thoughts are disrespect.
or
living in a community where your thoughts are appreciated and shared.
does he loose his respect?
he don't have any!! else nobody would dare to kick him out of the city. but now he is the leader of the community he created.
now let us take examples form our life:
when we were in school, we had friends. friends, best friends, lovely friends. we changed to college so do our friends and now hardly few are in contact. so we changed the community as we grow!!
so,
"rule over the community
don't let the community rule over you."
don't let the community rule over you."
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